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    I Thought It Was Just Me (but it isn't): Telling the Truth About Perfectionism, Inadequacy, and Power
    by Brené Brown
  • The Gifts of Imperfection: Let Go of Who You Think You're Supposed to Be and Embrace Who You Are
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    by Brene Brown

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    Gaia Girls Enter the Earth
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    by Seth Godin

    Interesting.

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    Hopelessly Incapable of Standing in the Way
    by Spain Colored Orange

    I'm totally addicted to this Houston band. I recently met Eric, the incredibly talented trumpet player - very cool guy. The sound is new and old and just awesome. I love this entire album. "Maybe It's True" is haunting to me.

  • Sneaky Like a Villain
    Sneaky Like a Villain
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Friday
13Nov2009

tgif + a pioneer giveaway! 

I'm feeling so much better today. There's nothing like a couple of days in bed and a lot of mindless TV to give you a new lease on life! I do believe, however, that I've maxed out on NCIS reruns. I told Charlie to "stand down" yesterday when he was charging his sister with a nerf sword. It worked, but it was a little weird.

I hate that I had to miss teaching my workshop at Renfrew. I know I would have met a lot of wonderful people. Next time!

To celebrate the fact that I'm back in the saddle, I'm giving away a copy of Ree Drummond's great new cookbook, The Pioneer Woman Cooks: Recipes from an Accidental Country Girl. I know I'm late to the game, but I just discovered her blog and it's so fun. Laura, my friend con queso, tweeted about her new cookbook and now I'm hooked!  It's downhome deliciousness! And the photos . . . oh, the photos.

To win, just let leave a comment before Monday, and tell us:

What/who are you trusting today?

What/who are you grateful for?

What/who are you inspired by?

 

 

 

Here's mine:

Today,

I'm trusting my process. I'm behind on my book deadline and I'm trying to trust the creative process.

I'm grateful for the best neighbors EVER and friends who show up at the front door with homemade chicken soup.

I'm inspired by the sheer delight of ordinary moments. Like earlier this week when I got extremely frustrated during dinner and said, "I can't stand these bad table manners. I'm serious!" and Charlie responded by burping so hard that food shot out of his mouth. We laughed until we cried. Actually, we laughed until Steve shoved grapes down between his gums and his bottom lip, then pretended like they were chewing tobacco. This led to Ellen sticking grapes up between her top lip and her gums and pretending that she was a Who from Whoville. Then we laughed until we cried.

Happy TGIF everyone!

PS: I've had several people email me and ask if I'd re-post the "santa talk" post from last year. I added a holiday favorites link to the right sidebar so that it's easy to find.

Reader Comments (235)

I'm trusting that everyone will be OK without me.

I'm grateful for a break from it all.

I'm inspired by the magazine I'm reading, Artful Blogging, just beautiful!
11.13.2009 | Unregistered CommenterPamela
Soooo glad you're feeling better. I gave in to my cold virus earlier this week - got tired of 'fighting' it all the time. Sucks to be sick. Right now, I am totally trusting Spirit ~ I am moving forward with my gifts and have no idea exactly where I'm going ... and this is new for me. My Self is leading - I must follow with Trust. I am grateful for the friends I have made at pnn.com as they are supporting and encouraging me in this time of doubt and insecurity. They have sparked my Courage and let me believe that to move forward, I must Just Begin. I am also grateful for you -- you have touched the heart and soul of so many women in a meaningful and significant way ... that's what I aspire to, too. Oh, that should have been my final comment - I am inspired by you ... and Oprah, and a Creative Consultant in Toronto, and a writer/runner in NY and every woman who grows stronger than her fears and serves the world as a result. Blessings always ... Sally.
11.13.2009 | Unregistered CommenterSally
I'm trusting that I still have the capacity to do this work... even though I'm having a slight crisis of confidence right now. I know rationally that I haven't lost the abilities I had previously!

I'm grateful that my kids are happy and healthy and so full of life

I'm inspired by the possibility of writing more. And I'm inspired by the person who has made me believe I can...
11.13.2009 | Unregistered CommenterCarolyn
I am trusting my gut that I made the right decision in ending my relationship with my abusive father.
I am grateful for my supportive husband, daughters and friends who have my back.
I am inspired by all the women who say NO MORE to abuse every day!
11.13.2009 | Unregistered CommenterDeb
I'm trusting that I will get there eventually if I just keep at it.

I'm grateful that I know my limits better now and act accordingly.

I'm inspired by the tiny pinprick of light I see that tells me that the light is there waiting for me, at the end of the tunnel! :)
11.13.2009 | Unregistered CommenterCameron
Nice image of the Who from Whoville!

trust - my gut on a whole bunch of stuff
gratitude - eating stew with my big family on a cold night
inspiration - ree drummond!
11.13.2009 | Unregistered CommenterJules
Learning to trust myself and value myself.
I am grateful for the beautiful moments in each day.
I am inspired by women and their resilence and ingenuity.
11.13.2009 | Unregistered Commentermbeach
1. I am trusting that I am not, nor do I need to be, in control of it all.

2. I am grateful for simple and unintentional, but timely, reminders. Thank you, Brene, for reminding me to...
--> TRUST the PROCESS

3. I am inspired by my best dog friend. He is simple, patient and persistent. And still, after five years, he constantly grows new bits of courage for things that have made him shake and shudder before.
11.13.2009 | Unregistered CommenterNicole H
I am trusting that kind people will always win over those who are mean; I am grateful for a sister's hug tonight even when she herself was way too tired to listen and tcare and smile with me, she did; I am inspired by the knowing voice inside me that tomorrow will reveal another day of similar miracles, if only I remember to look.
11.13.2009 | Unregistered CommenterBonnie
What/who are you trusting today?
My instincts.

What/who are you grateful for?
An answer. Not what I was expecting, but at least, now I know.

What/who are you inspired by?
My new friend. I think I may be able to cobble together some guts to try my career again.
11.13.2009 | Unregistered Commentertawnya
Today I'm trusting the truth.
I'm grateful for friends and family who open their hearts to me.
I'm inspired by time with my wonderful sister last weekend. Happy Birthday Kath!!
11.13.2009 | Unregistered CommenterLiz
Today I am Trusting that the words will come.

I am totally Inspired by my beautiful friend/mentor/hero/soul sister, Sally, who has allowed our love help her recognize her own Courage...and Talent. She is following her path with Faith...its gorgeous to see!

I am Grateful for the heart & soul connections I've made through (supposedly) cold technology...I am humbled each day by the possibilities.

Glad you're feeling better, Brene, your presence really does make a day a bit lighter & brighter!
trusting: that I will be able to dig deep and find the discipline necessary to finish this manuscript

grateful: for the support and encouragement of my family - they really believe I can do this

inspired by: another children's lit writer who wrote 14,000 words today, yes, that's right, 14,000 words, and she says they are good words, too - to that, i can only say, wow
11.13.2009 | Unregistered CommenterJet Harrington
Today I am trusting that I'll get all of the work-related things on my "to-do" list completed before going back on service next Friday. It's quite a list but I have faith I'll get to where I need to be by then, and that I'll be able to do so without it impeding my treasured away time this week.

Today I am grateful for the "sisterhood of the girl surgeons". I know, it sounds silly. I've had some wonderful opportunities to spend time recently with other women surgeons whom I respect and whose friendship I value greatly. We are rich blessings to one another.

Today I am inspired by serendipity. It's serving me well right now as things just keep falling into their magical place in a variety of facets of my life.
11.13.2009 | Unregistered CommenterAmalia
Glad you are feeling better!

I trust that my neighbour's won't laugh about me asking them to be part in my photography project.

I am grateful for sleep.

I am inspired by anyone who just goes and does it. Whatever their "it" is.
11.14.2009 | Unregistered CommenterMel
I am sooooooo glad you are feeling better!!!

I am TRUSTING all the WONDERFUL things that are happening right now! I am choosing to enjoy it all instead of waiting for the other shoe to drop.

I am GRATEFUL for the dinner w/ my dad tonight..

I am INSPIRED by forgiveness.
11.14.2009 | Unregistered CommenterAllison
This post made me laugh out loud!

I am trusting that tomorrow I'll have enough energy to accomplish everything that needs to be accomplished.

I am grateful that I am so much better that I can even think about doing the things that need to be done.

I am inspired by the fact that putting one foot in front of the other actually works: it keeps me moving; I see progress; I am blessed by the gifts of the universe when I keep moving.
11.14.2009 | Unregistered CommenterWanda
i'm trusting myself enough to listen to myself--the part saying, "step back and breathe."

i am utterly grateful for playing sticky mud pit with the most lovable 4-year-old little girl, and for making dresses out of plastic bubble wrap. joy has a way of making the heart lighten up!

i am inspired by my rare evening alone time, enough so to enjoy a quiet evening with my dog, go to central market, put on pjs, and make a pot of tea and gingerbread spice loaf (and eat 1/3 of it without feeling guilt).
11.14.2009 | Unregistered Commenternicole
I am trusting that one day my life will come together for me and all the pain that I am in will one day heal.

I am grateful for them friends and family that I have because they are good to me and truly do love me and want the best for me

I am inspired by my dreams.

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11.14.2009 | Unregistered CommenterEve
Glad your recovering...and enjoying those unexpected funny moments that come up with your family, children are under alot of stress now days, aren't they?

Trust...that I can control my thoughts to make a good day even the best.

Grateful...for so much, mainly a body that lets me do what needs to be accomplished and more.

Inspired by...reading blogs of substance, books, grandchildren and music. And I too read Pioneer woman blog...what a crack up she is! Got to love her!
I'm so glad you are on the other side!

I'm trusting that I'm on the right path.

I'm grateful for the unwavering support of my little family.

I'm inspired by the change in season.
11.14.2009 | Unregistered CommenterThe Other Laura
I am trusting in God. He has blessed me with more than I could have imagined. I am grateful for the encouragement of amazing friends and family. I am inspired by the beauty of art and nature and all goodness. Life is exciting. Life is good!
11.14.2009 | Unregistered Commenterjanet
i am trusting that my spirit will let me just "be" in the next couple of days

I am grateful for my sister who connects with me so readily when talking on the phone (she gets it}

I am inspired by Ree Drummond's blog (I read her blog twice a day). I am inspired by my blog even tho at times I feel like my posts are probably meaningless to other readers..it keeps me inspired to put something up.
11.14.2009 | Unregistered CommenterDonna
I am trusting my self and my inner energy to continue to guide me along my current path and constantly moving forward in my goals. I am also trusting my muse to keep inspiring me to try and do new things.

I am grateful for my family who supports me in my endeavors and is always there for me.

I am inspired by the beauty found in the silence in my day. Being able to be a part of that peace and to bring it to myself and have renewed energy that keeps me going.
11.14.2009 | Unregistered CommenterMichelle Verbeeck
I'm trusting that all my hard work will pay off and a new job will come along for me very soon.

I'm grateful for my 'new' little car that gives me so much freedom.

I'm inspired by my dad who is 74 going on 30 and manages to be positive through health problems and never takes life too seriously.
11.14.2009 | Unregistered CommenterAveen
Trusting - My Intuition
Grateful - For others who are passionate about providing ways for me to find wholeness
Inspired - By people brave enough to tell their story

Trusting- All shall be well
Grateful- and all shall be well
Inspired by- All manner of things shall be well. Julian of Norwich
11.14.2009 | Unregistered CommenterMelinda Rose
I am trusting my creative ability.
I am grateful for all of my wonderfully supportive and loving friends.
I am inspired by my amazing kids.
Life is GRAND.
11.14.2009 | Unregistered CommenterStephanie
I am trusting in my heart and my Mommy instinct. Tantrums are getting difficult with my toddler and it is getting hard for me to deal with it. But, I trust I will do the right thing.

I am grateful for my family. I am so happy that my little girl is finally here and we feel like a complete family of 4.

I am inspired by other Moms around me. Sometimes I feel like I was thrust into Mommy boot camp, but I really admire the women around me who have done it all and succeeded.
11.14.2009 | Unregistered CommenterAndrea Kruse
What/who are you trusting today? I am trusting in true love. I was up until midnight finally reading Black Heels to Tractor Wheels and feel that love is out there for me if I can start to believe in it again.

What/who are you grateful for? For the pecan crusted chicken leftovers that await me

What/who are you inspired by? I guess I circle back to Ree. Reading her stories, seeing what she has built with her life is very, inspiring. I am city girl from LA who married a cowboy too but now he is leaving and I need to know that I did the best I could and be inspired to get in the saddle again.
11.14.2009 | Unregistered CommenterNancy
I've been reading Ree's blog for years, and I LOVE it! I'd love a chance to win her cookbook, awesome giveawar!

What/who are you trusting today? I don't have much trust today. It's been a rough week. I'm feeling like I need to regain trust in myself especially.

What/who are you grateful for? I'm grateful for my two boys. They remind me what I'm working for and why I need to work so hard, in life and work.

What/who are you inspired by? I'm inspired by nature. It's truly amazing. I see the season change around me, the weather getting colder, the leaves falling, and I'm in awe.
11.14.2009 | Unregistered CommenterRhea
I am trusting my instincts.

I am grateful for people that inspire me to expand my horizons.

I am inspired by women that don't take no for an answer
11.14.2009 | Unregistered CommenterAndrea Watts
I'm trusting in myself and my family that everything turns out well
I'm grateful for all the wonderful people in my life
I'm inspired by writing such as yours :)
11.14.2009 | Unregistered CommenterSean P.
I am trusting that in the Lord to supply my needs.
I am grateful for the friends I have that help me out as a single mom.
I am inspired by the people on the Biggest Loser who want to lose weight and get healthy.
11.14.2009 | Unregistered CommenterBecky
Found you from PW --

I'm trusting that my flights will be OK next week.

I'm grateful for God's strength and grace in my life. Oh, and my mom.

I'm inspired by the praise band at my church -- they work so hard to do well and it shows.
11.14.2009 | Unregistered CommenterLydia
I am trusting that it will happen when God wants it to happen.
I am grateful I no longer have to bath the cat for her skin condition. Seriously , bathing a cat is NO fun.
I am inspired by my mother. I used to cringe when people told me I was so much like her. Now It's one of the greatest compliment I could get.
11.14.2009 | Unregistered CommenterJody
I'm trusting that God is not as far away as it feels like he is right now.
I'm grateful for my best friend who I'm spending the afternoon with.
I'm inspired by my 2-year old's zest for life.
11.14.2009 | Unregistered CommenterBlessed
I'm trusting my husband won't shoot himself or get shot deer hunting this weekend.

I'm grateful for friends who came over and played with the kids and hunt out with me last night - was tons of fun.

I'm inspired by my children, who always behave so well for me and who help me to see the world in a fresh and innocent light.
11.14.2009 | Unregistered CommenterRandi
I am trusting that all things have a purpose in the journey of our life.

I am grateful for the upcoming chance to see my son, home from Brooklyn for a visit. Texas seems like the moon as far as distance goes.

Inspired by the beauty of others lately. The kind of beauty that bubbles up to the surface for others to marvel at.
11.14.2009 | Unregistered Commentertracy g
I am trusting my instinct today.
I am grateful for the time I have left with my 15 year old cat who's being treated for lymphoma.
I am inspired by my daughter who demonstrates her love for her little brother so much, even when he's being a pain in the rear.
11.14.2009 | Unregistered Commentermerry jennifer
I am trusting that this baby will come in her own time.

I am grateful for the amazing support of my husband.

I am inspired by my best friend, who reminds me daily how wonderful (and, realistically, exhausting) it will be to be a mom and that I am entirely capable.
11.14.2009 | Unregistered CommenterCatherine
I'm trusting my husband and the Boy Scouts will come home safely from their long hike this weekend.
I'm grateful for my daughter's friends, who will keep her busy while the boy's are away.
I'm inspired by all the women who have home businesses!
11.14.2009 | Unregistered Commenterjjk
I am trusting that God will take care of my daughter this weekend.
I am grateful for the love of a wonderful husband.
I am inspired by my sister-in-law's unselfishness.
11.14.2009 | Unregistered CommenterGail
I'm trusting that I will use my best judgment and not over-buy at a chicken show I am attending today.

I am very, very grateful for my fantastic husband and all the things he does for me.

I am inspired by a recent visit from a friend that helped me to get started making cornices for my living area.
11.14.2009 | Unregistered CommenterCarole
I'm trusting myself to get my university work done tomorrow, if I let myself have an off-day today.

I'm grateful to my housemate's boyfriend Chris, who gave me tea and crumpets when I found myself literally soaked to the skin and miserable in torrential rain this morning, and then drove me home =]. Little kindnesses can just save someone's day.

I'm inspired by the amazing food bloggers all over the internet, that have prompted me to mix up a delicious carrot spice bread this afternoon (it's in the oven right now, and I'm sitting in my pyjama bottoms - yeah, it's one of *those* days - waiting for it to bake). Can't wait!
11.14.2009 | Unregistered CommenterIndigo
I am trusting my mom and her advice about what to wear to the funeral of a student tomorrow.
I am grateful that my family members are happy, healthy, and whole.
I am inspired by parents who have lost children and still keep moving on and living. God bless them.
11.14.2009 | Unregistered CommenterBeth
I'm trusting in the Lord.
I'm grateful for my salvation.
I'm inspired by the beauty of His Creation.
11.14.2009 | Unregistered CommenterMonie
I am trusting in the Lord. He knows the plans he has for me.

I am Grateful for my family. Without them i would be lost.

I am inspired by my sister. A recent cancer survivor. Her faith in the Lord and unending strength give me just what i need to move through each day!
11.14.2009 | Unregistered CommenterBecky Balli
I am trusting in the Lord today and everyday.

I am grateful the wonderful friends I spent the evening with last night. It is wonderful we can be there for one another.

I am inspired by my parents who are awesome and do so much for their children and grandchildren!
11.14.2009 | Unregistered CommenterSuzy
I'm trusting that God knows what he is doing with our lives as we struggle to conceive.
I am grateful for my family and friends that support and listen to me everyday. They are always there for me.
I am inspired by all the women out there that I've met that are also going down this path. My internetz friends are amazing and strong.
11.14.2009 | Unregistered CommenterRebecca
I am trusting in God.
I am grateful for my family
I am inspired by beautiful friends.

what a great idea listing all this. We should do this every day.
11.14.2009 | Unregistered CommenterDorothy

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