inspiration interview with laura mayes + giveaway!
I started the Inspiration Interview Series because I wanted to know more about the people who share their work with the world and inspire me to practice courage, be creative, and dream big. Laura Mayes is one of those people!
Meet Laura!
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Laura spent several years as an ad agengy VP, where she wrote for a variety of Fortune 500 companies and metaphoric rock stars.
She is one of the founders of Kirtsy - a social media platform of pure goodness. A site for women, run by women, and about women! Her partners in crime are Gabrielle Blair, who most of us know as Design Mom, Laurie Smithwick who blogs at Upside Up, and Gwen Bell , a social media guru and consultant!
In addition to her work at Kirtsy, Laura is a lover of great finds, bargains, and design, she also writes for a variety of new-fangled blogs, review sites, and publications including The Queso and Cool Mom Picks.
In her 128 hours of weekly spare time, she enjoys hanging with her brilliant husband, chasing their energetic son (Harry the Hurricane) around the house, and destroying food for dinner parties. She also really digs enchiladas and Elvis and would be extremely happy to talk to you at any given moment about the benefits of New York, British music, design magazines, and carbs.
Today is a big, big day for Laura, Kirtsy, and a whole bunch of us who were lucky enough to be part of the first Kirtsy book! It's launch day for this:

This is a collection of great blog posts, inspirational designs and provocative juxtapositions. It has all the energy of kirtsy, but you can carry it in your bag and you don't need wifi to read it. It will introduce you to the kirtsy chicks, their 22 amazing editors, top bloggers and women from around the world.
I'm so exctied to have a piece in this little piece of history.
Katherine Center wrote the forward for the book and also made this amazing book trailer!
I've known Laura for a little over a year, but it feels like forever when we're together. Part of it is the shorthand that comes from being hardcore Texans. It's a kindred spirit thing that you can't mask with Prada sunglasses. Can you see the reflection of Katherine's one-horned bull in her shades? Yes. Katherine is also from Texas and she has a bull. On a ranch.
Here's my top three "How Laura inspires me" list:
1. Her sheer determination and persistence. We say "Get 'er done!" down here. She's that kinda girl.
2. Her ability to be extremely serious and extremely funny at the same time. Some people choose. She doesn't.
3. Her hopefulness is contagious. She's a true believer. I love that about her.
Inspiration Interview
Here is the best part! I came up with this standard format for the Inspiration Series after thinking, "What do I want to know about people?"
I want to know about their humanity, their ordinary-ness, their pjs.
Enjoy!
Creativity and Inspiration:
What is your writing process? Direct. I almost always publish in first draft. I realize this goes against all of the planet’s writing laws, but it’s a time thing. I picked up this habit writing on super tight deadlines for a very busy ad agency. I’ve discovered that if I go back and re-read and edit and all, I’ll never stop; and I’ll never get anything else done in a day. Now I ride the stream of consciousness, and subconsciously self-edit as I go. It’s not the optimal process, but it’s optimal for me. Because I’ve learned that getting something done is much more important than doing it perfectly. Because it will never be perfect.
How would you characterize your relationship with writing? Writing is an adventure for me. I almost never know where something will take me when I write. I sometimes have a general idea about where I want to go, but I usually wind my way off the track a bit. In the end, I always make it home. Eventually.
What are your greatest creative inspirations? I write best with headphones blaring to Doves, Blur, Koop, Rufus Wainwright, Kings of Convenience, Trashcan Sinatras, Gomez, Imogen Heap, Everything But The Girl, Stone Roses, The Samples, Indigo Girls, Guster, Badly Drawn Boy, Ocean Colour Scene, Mutual Admiration Society, Ben Folds, MGMT, Dixie Chicks, Manic Street Preachers, Avett Brothers, Neil Finn, Pernice Brothers, Zero 7, The Bird and The Bee, The Rifles, Ra Ra Riot, Muse, Phoenix, and The Pains of Being Pure at Heart, to name a few. Music is my coffee.
From James Lipton, host of Inside the Actor’s Studio
What is your favorite word? Tie between specificity and simplicity.
What is your least favorite word? Either indecision or kerfluffle. I can’t decide.
What sound or noise do you love? Thunderstorm rain.
What sound or noise do you hate? When my son is sad, he makes this very specific sad noise. It breaks my heart.
What is your favorite curse word? Horseshit.
*** A quick note *** I laughed so hard when I read that Laura's favorite curse word is "horseshit!" Why? Because I just said it a couple of days ago, when I was really, really mad. I don't say it very often, but when I do I sound just like my dad. My voice changes and everything. In Texas, there's a huge difference between bullshit and horseshit.
From JL’s Uncle Jessie Meme
A song/band/type of music you'd risk wreck & injury to turn off when it comes on the radio? I read a quote once that said no matter how splintered we are as a country, I think we can all agree that they play way too much Nickelback on the radio.
Best show on television? Mad Men.
Favorite movie? Tie between Sliding Doors and Amelie.
Favorite room in your house? My kitchen.
Best concert? This is an impossible question. So I’ll go with my first: Elvis. And no I’m not as old as you would think. Swear.
Brass or strings? Brass.
If you could have anything put on a t-shirt what would it be? N'est-ce Pas?
The best part about being your age? The not caring part.
Favorite Girl Scout cookie? Thin Mint. Duh.
Poker or gin or bridge? Gin. It’s the only one I understand.
Shower or bath? Gigantic enormous way-too-long super hot bath.
Favorite pajamas? Flannel. Even in summer.
Nightmare job? Anything on TV.
A talent you wish you had? Drawing/painting.
Dream vacation? A month in Italy with unlimited funds.
What’s on your nightstand? Grace Eventually by Anne Lamott, three tiny trucks, and a glass of gingerale.
From the famous “Weird Things” blogoshpere meme
Tell us 3 weird things about you:
1. I’ve not seen most movies. So people totally freak out that I haven’t seen (fill in the blank).
2. I own more shoes than I do underwear. Swear.
3. When I’m old and retired, I want to move to a tiny apartment in New York City.
A six-word memoir that captures your life as an artist OR your art life.
I decorate ideas with twinkle lights.
"Take a Bow" Giveaway!
To celebrate the new Kirtsy book, we're giving away two signed copies of the new book! The timing is great - what a perfect holiday gift!
All you have to do to win is leave a comment telling us one reason you should take a bow! C'mon! Don't be shy! Give us one tiny reason . . . an accomplishment . . . a "I made it through this moment" . . . or a simple "due to my sheer awesomeness." One tiny thing!
The giveaway ends Thursday night!


















11.17.2009
Reader Comments (96)
Thank you.
i am taking a bow for the commitment i've made to saying yes to the things (and people) that trigger me. for counting myself among, and not separate, from those creating work that is true and real. for showing up, each and every day, with the intention of recognizing and walking through doorways to greater freedom in my life and, perhaps, inspiring you to do the same.
be well,
lisa
Thanks for having this today, Brene! It came as a much needed time of reflection for me.
Fun post and thought-provoking as usual. Thanks!
xoxo
ps. love love love that Laura doesn't edit much and goes with her first draft, now I don't feel so weird that I do the same thing :)
thank you for a wonderful post about laura. i knew i'd like her after i read she likes the show 'mad men' like me!
Thanks for the great post!
I'd like to take a bow because I didn't yell or hurt anyone when I discovered yesterday that the cat I just adopted from a rescue organization is infested with fleas (despite the fact that they told me she had been recently flea treated). I'm also proud to say that I (still) think she is a pretty sweet kitty, in spite of her infestation.
I HATED that I had to make these choices but that's life. I had to "get er done!", even while raising little ones and being a grad student.
In the process of all of this I have had to facilitate a lot of other womens' feelings about ME doing these things. I know reactions are often about their own fears, insulating themselves from hard things... I had to recognize that and keep marching forward for me, for my kids.
I've made a decision to stop being apologetic for doing big things well.
I will. Today.
and then I will bow.
i totally am taking a bow....and then i'm taking a nap.
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I don't plan on giving up meat (don't think my house full of Irish men will let me) but I want to make informed choices on where the food we eat comes from...but I'm scared to death of reading this book and having to make the changes once I know more...
Thanks for the post and the continued reminder to find whatever joy there is in the day and if there isn't any... then I should make it!
But, in spite of my artistically challenged hands, I signed up for two artsy e-courses. In the past month, I've played with acrylics, watercolors, glues, glazes, charcoal pencils, markers, collage -- so many cool, amazing art things.
One day I realized my desire to play with art supplies finally out grew my embarassment of my "dis - ability."
I love it. Even my horrible, shameful, sucky things. Love them all. Having fun and not caring a bit about the results. Bliss.
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I am taking a bow for allowing myself to take a personal/sick day from teaching last week when I really, really needed it.
Happy Birthday Brene'!
My evaluation was a 4 exceeds standard in every area.
I deserve to take a bow because one of my students told her mother who is also a teacher at my school, "Ms. Chavira did a great math lesson today. It was so good, our principal even stayed to watch" It's not the written score....it's the gratitude of my 3rd graders.
Susan
So I take a bow for taking action, joining AA-- without shame or doubt and moving my recovery forward. Life is amazing without alcohol in it and I am so grateful to have finally taken this step. Also, many thanks to Brene for helping me see that you can be a fun and funny person without alcohol (I recently heard you speak at the Council in Houston).
My little bow is that I took (and continue to take) a chance at following my passion for writing...and though I see myself as a constant work-in-progress, I am proud that for once I DON'T see myself as a fraud. Following my passion has become transformational...and I love that, too!
relationship and cancelling the wedding.
I am taking a bow for keeping up with schedules for my family of four, getting eveyone where they need to be, feeding them, overseeing homework, chasing the dog, washing school uniforms, running errands, dealing with non-deep thinkers at my office....and not (completely) losing it.
tiny bow...that i told the truth yesterday...trusted that i could say it, grateful that i did, and inspired by the glee today. gracias.