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Publications
  • Marriage Rules: A Manual for the Married and Coupled Up
    Marriage Rules: A Manual for the Married and Coupled Up
    by Harriet Lerner

    Just finished reading an advance copy! Wonderful! 

  • The Boy Who Saved My Life: Walking Into the Light with My Autistic Grandson
    The Boy Who Saved My Life: Walking Into the Light with My Autistic Grandson
    by Earle Martin
  • Walking with Justice: Uncommon Lessons from One of Life's Greatest Mentors
    Walking with Justice: Uncommon Lessons from One of Life's Greatest Mentors
    by Mollie Marti
  • Incognito: The Secret Lives of the Brain
    Incognito: The Secret Lives of the Brain
    by David Eagleman
Publications
  • I'm Your Man
    I'm Your Man
    by Leonard Cohen

    Take this Waltz is on my top ten list of all songs!

  • I and Love and You
    I and Love and You
    by The Avett Brothers
Publications
  • Masterpiece Classic: Downton Abbey (Original UK Unedited Edition)
    Masterpiece Classic: Downton Abbey (Original UK Unedited Edition)
    PBS

    So totally addicted to this series! Absolutely amazing!

  • Zen: Vendetta / Cabal / Ratking [Blu-ray]
    Zen: Vendetta / Cabal / Ratking [Blu-ray]
    starring Rufus Sewell

    Based on your recommendations from a recent blog post! It's another wonderful BBC mystery series! 

  • The Good Wife: The First Season
    The Good Wife: The First Season
    starring Julianna Margulies, Chris Noth, Josh Charles, Matt Czuchry, Archie Panjabi

    One of the best shows on TV. Juiliana Marguiles is incredible. 

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Sunday
Nov072010

inspiration interview with Myriam Joseph (and a joyful giveaway)

I started the Inspiration Interview Series because I wanted to know more about the people who share their work with the world and inspire me to practice courage, be creative, and dream big. Myriam Joseph is one of those people! Meet Myriam!

Image by Andrea JenkinsMyriam is a social entrepreneur, a chef, a writer, and co-founder of JOY Spread the Word. We met in 2008 - at the Lovebomb gathering. For me, it was love at first sight. Our conversations about shame, love, self-care, and being enough were transformative. I'm so grateful that she agreed to this interview. Grab a cup of tea and enjoy!

Tell us about JOY Spread the Word?

At first glance, the practical would argue that JOY! Spread the Word is a company that makes bamboo and organic cotton long sleeve jerseys with words written on them. While this is true, JOY reflects to me an opportunity to create a soulful life.

When my niece Lyric was born eleven years ago, scarcity and challenge occupied most of the space held in my family.  When she came she brought with her an invitation from the Universe to reconsider joy. I was so profoundly affected by how her energy changed the dynamics in my family and in my own spirit, I wanted to somehow encapsulate that feeling and share it with others. I knew whatever manifested would reflect my desire for a whole new way of being.

Initially, the feeling manifested as jerseys and slowly evolved into an opportunity to learn, share, teach, bring and live. Through our jersey sales, JOY supports children in different parts of the world including the United States, to eat, to be educated and to know joy.

How did you choose the words that are on the jerseys?

In a conversation with a dear friend, she invited me to consider what blessings I would give to babies entering the world? If I could give only four gifts to children what would they be? There were so many that came to mind, so I further considered what I wished to have received myself.


Myriam is from Haiti, where many of her family members still live. After the earthquake ravaged most of the country in January of this year, Myriam began a very passionate outreach effort to bring relief to her beloved country. To date, she has raised over $15,000 that is being used to rebuild schools, purchase teaching materials, and support teachers.

Compassion fatigue seems to setting in right when Haiti needs the most help rebuilding. Hurricane Tomas did less damage than expected, but with 1.5 million people still homeless in Port-au-Prince, cholera and other illnesses are on the rise. Many of us want to help and aren’t sure what we can do. What are your recommendations?

This is a challenging question with which I continually wrestle. On my recent trip to Haiti, I was overwhelmed by the enormity of the circumstances. I held the belief that nothing I did would make an impact. When I discussed this with my uncle living there, he reminded me that there is a good possibility that I won’t see the results of my contribution in my lifetime, yet it was vital that I keep pressing forward.

My recommendation for people is to continue the conversation, not just about Haiti but about all people that are in need of our support for self-actualization.  We have infinite access.  Communities such as this one hold such incredible potential for influence.  Sharing stories that you read about Haiti with one another will keep people engaged, create partnerships and empower people to live their truth.

In addition to being a social entrepreneur, you are a chef. When did that love affair start? 

While my relationship with food has been longstanding, I’m still on the fence about whether or not it’s a love affair. I started cooking at age 10 when my Mom started working a second job in the evenings.  In the mornings, she would leave items out on the counter and the a few pots. She would call home during her break and guide me through the steps of making rice and beans or stewed chicken. A pinch of salt, add some water up to where the pot is scratched, stir until sticky, oil until it starts to smoke and let it boil until you hear it start to sizzle. 

I realize now that this exchange kept me connected to her while she struggled to take care of us. We collaborated together through the phone. To this day, I find it difficult to share recipes with friends since I have little experience with measurements or recipe instructions. Cooking for me is an intuitive process and luckily for me, people trust what I create.

What are your greatest creative inspirations?

Loving kindness from others is my greatest inspiration. When someone else has the generosity to share how they see me or encourage my potential, I am over the moon inspired. Loving kindness invites me to write, share, cook, dream, paint and love.

What are your greatest creative barriers?

My greatest creative barriers are the groups of squatters that take up space in my head. They lay around all day, shouting their bad advice and accusations, they don’t work, they don’t pay rent, they just talk, talk, talk.


Image by Patience Salgado

Now, for some fun!

From James Lipton, host of Inside the Actor’s Studio


What is your favorite word? Agrarian
What is your least favorite word? Phone tag (oops, it’s actually two words)
What sound or noise do you love? my husband playing piano
What sound or noise do you hate? Hacking (clearing of the throat)
What is your favorite curse word? Dirty ass
 
From JL’s Uncle Jessie Meme


A song/band/type of music you'd risk wreck & injury to turn off when it comes on the radio? Smooth jazz
 
Best show on television? Curb Your Enthusiasm
 
Favorite room in your house? The one where my husband is
 
Best concert? Taking my 9 year old niece to her first concert, Jason Mraz, she screamed the whole time, even when he wasn’t on stage
 
Brass or strings? BRASS anyone that would ask this question obviously has never been with a trombone player
 
If you could have anything put on a t-shirt what would it be? I love black girl hair

The best part about being your age? Being asked to show my ID when buying alcohol (“wait, you mean you actually think I am under 21?!?!?!?”)
 
Favorite Girl Scout cookie? The ones with the chocolate and caramel and coconut
 
Poker or gin or bridge? Go fish
 
Shower or bath? Sit in the bath while taking a shower
 
Favorite pajamas? Body lotion
 
Nightmare job? paramedic
 
A talent you wish you had? always knowing what to say
 
Dream vacation? A month long visit to Post Ranch Inn, Big Sur or renting an oceanfront beach house with my family and friends in Wellfleet, MA
 
What’s on your nightstand? wishes and gratitude
 
From the famous “Weird Things” blogoshpere meme

Tell us 3 weird things about you:

1. I’m just learning how to be a black woman in a black woman’s body

2. I listen to my car radio on “scan” the whole time I’m driving

3. At night, I shower with the lights off

From Smith Magazine’s Not Quite What I Was Planning: Six Word Memoirs from Writers Famous and Obscure

A six-word memoir that captures your life: 
Love always wins, always, always, always.

Myriam has offered us a generous giveaway of her incredible JOY! Spread the Word shirts. Two folks will each win two shirts!

This is Charlie wearing his Compassion shirt!

All you have to do to win is leave a comment telling us what one word is inspiring you today!

I'll close the comments on Thursday.

Today, my word is strength.

And to Myriam - thank you for bringing light to the world and sharing yourself with us! 

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FABULOUS article... am happy to have met and gotten to know a little about Myriam... my word for today (not to be unoriginal - but I was inspired) is JOY... I realize that I have a hard time feeling joy for a variety of reasons... but just looking at those children's faces wearing their t-shirts made me JOYOUS!... I'm also going to try and shower in the dark... think that's a GREAT idea! Thank you Thank you!
11.8.2010 | Unregistered CommenterMyshelbelle
<deep breath.> love this!

My word for the day... acceptance.
11.8.2010 | Unregistered CommenterMonica L.H.
Energy - I've learned that this is an essential part of becoming and staying motivated to bring happiness into your life and into the lives of others. I believe that positive energy is much stronger than negative and that people naturally respond to it. A smile is just as contagious as a yawn. :)
11.8.2010 | Unregistered CommenterSarah
What a great article, I love the piece about cooking intuitively, I do that all the time and see what magic happens.

My word of the day, "Curiosity"
11.8.2010 | Unregistered CommenterMia
My word of the day is WORTHY.
11.8.2010 | Unregistered CommenterAdeah
What an absolutely fabulous interview - and woman! I truly resonated with so many of her responses. And those photos?! Ahhhh!!!

My word, particularly after reading this interview?

Authenticity.
11.8.2010 | Unregistered CommenterLisa
Hope. Today is all about hope.
11.8.2010 | Unregistered Commenterlilia
I choose COMPASSION, as I am waking up to how much I need to have it for my self.
Thank you for this beautiful dialogue, these rays of each of your sunshiney spirits.
11.8.2010 | Unregistered CommenterLynne
my word is legacy.
tomorrow's world is for our children.
11.8.2010 | Unregistered CommenterJanelle
Look!! (It's a lovely day here)
11.8.2010 | Unregistered CommenterLee
What a lovely interview! I like Myriam's description of the squatters in her head!
My word for today - comfort - both seeking and giving.
Fab photos too!
11.8.2010 | Unregistered CommenterSara
Love this post--and that Myriam, WOW, what a beauty!! Inside and out. My word of the day is GO. Just go, do it, GO now. :)
11.8.2010 | Unregistered CommenterCameron
My word today is acceptance.
11.8.2010 | Unregistered CommenterDanyelle
Believe.
11.8.2010 | Unregistered CommenterLindsey
Thank you for bringing so many good things together here! Some days I really need it.

My word today is Kindness
11.8.2010 | Unregistered CommenterKim
My word today OPEN-HEARTEDNESS ~ articles like this continue to inspire me to cultivate this quality in my own life.
11.8.2010 | Unregistered CommenterCatherine
my word is "yearning"------i yearn so much to love myself---that is the beginning of it all.
11.8.2010 | Unregistered Commentercathi boerio
Another inspirational post. My word for today is CALM.
11.8.2010 | Unregistered CommenterCheri
My word for today: breathe.
11.8.2010 | Unregistered Commenterandria
Love this. Myriam is a rockstar. My word for the day is AUTHENTICITY
11.8.2010 | Unregistered CommenterMeghan
My word today is NOTICE. I want to go through each day trying to notice something new in my everyday environment. Always something to see.
11.8.2010 | Unregistered Commentertracy g
My word for today:
Embrace
11.8.2010 | Unregistered CommenterTina
Brene, i just heard your Houston TED lecture that I recieved form a friend on Facebook, and you carried on and completed the very conversation I had been having with a friend just before that. You are wise and inspirational and it is no accident that I found you at this time. So on to your website and this fabulous interview with another inspirational wise woman that further inspires me in the direction I want to be going. So my word for today would have to be blessed. I feel blessed to have come across such a wealth of positive encouragement that life is indeed a joyous journey that we are meant to revel in.
11.8.2010 | Unregistered CommenterKaren
Joy!
11.8.2010 | Unregistered CommenterMarnie
BRILLIANT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
my word today is hope. as in, i am filled with it. : )
11.8.2010 | Unregistered Commentertraceyclark
Authenticity!
11.8.2010 | Unregistered CommenterElaine
Fabulous.

that is the word I refer to daily. If soemone calls and asks how I am, I always state I'm fabulous. I am a sales rep, I talk all day long, and needless to say, state I am feeling fabulous all day long. I do have "those" days once in a while where I don't, but I genrally have a great and fabulous day. It works!
11.8.2010 | Unregistered CommenterJanel
I'm not sure exactly why, but divine. That's my word today.
11.8.2010 | Unregistered CommenterElizabeth
Oh what an inspiring, joyful interview ! I'll have to read it again, as I suspect finding more treasures in it ;>) THANKS for that !
My word today is : SIMPLIFY
11.8.2010 | Unregistered CommenterNADINE
What a lovely interview.

My word... DREAM
11.8.2010 | Unregistered CommenterMary
Today my word is "Be." It took me years to figure out the power of this word and how transformative it is. I liken it to your Ted video from Houston where your therapist said, "It's neither good nor bad. It just is what it is." I've spent too much time becoming and never enjoying being. It feels good.
11.8.2010 | Unregistered CommenterAmy
Great interview with a great lady.

My word is INTENTIONAL.
11.8.2010 | Unregistered CommenterDeb J
Incredible. Thank you! My word is courage.
11.8.2010 | Unregistered CommenterRainey
Love this interview!! My word....calm :)
11.8.2010 | Unregistered Commenteramy
Breathe. . . is the word, my word lately. Life is getting simpler and simpler w/ a 5 year old and a 1 year old. I have to get life down to the finest point. Take it all down to the simplest way to slow down, to stop moving, thinking, rushing- breathe. When I breathe, I create space. When I breathe, I stop my mind, my ego, the repetitive thinking that isn't always negative, but neither is it life giving or helpful when it's so obsessive. And, around our noisy house, when the energy is getting bigger than us and the sound is racheting, racheting up, I say to my 5 year old, let's stop, let's sit, let's take a deep breath. He does it w/ me and we're able to slow it all down and get back to basics together; together we breathe. Breathe.

- Thank you!
11.8.2010 | Unregistered CommenterGena
After viewing the photos of the children, my word of the day is Joy! I watched a baby today laugh and laugh as she pushed around a balloon. That's the Joy that is available to all of us, if we just open ourselves to it. Thanks for the sharing the interview and for the chance to win the shirts!
11.8.2010 | Unregistered CommenterCheri
My word for today, and everyday, is JOY!

Find it, live it, love it!!

thank you for this brilliant interview!
11.8.2010 | Unregistered CommenterLorie
Lovely interview. The community of lovebombers inspires me endlessly, and has me feeling more than a little envious of the bond you share - each of you are stars, in some wonderfully different ways..

My word: patience.

with EVERYTHING today.
11.8.2010 | Unregistered CommenterJet Harrington
Wonderful interview - I love some of her answers! Her t-shirt response ("I love black girl hair") reminded me of a recent Sesame Street song, "I Love My Hair." Anyway, my word is ACCEPT. For me it has many shadings, from acceptance of others to acceptance of myself to acceptance of the situation around me.
11.8.2010 | Unregistered CommenterSandi
My word today is "membership." We all belong to this world.
11.8.2010 | Unregistered CommenterGene Smith
My word for today is "surrender" which is challenging for a control addict like myself, however when I surrender things turn out so much better, so the other word would also be "trust" in order to surrender. Thank you.
11.8.2010 | Unregistered CommenterMelissa Muirhead
Today word is CLOUDS. I am photographing clouds. What a model they are. There are a lot of emotions to think about when watching.
11.8.2010 | Unregistered CommenterRadish
My word for the day is something I have not been able to say for a while.......CLARITY.
11.8.2010 | Unregistered CommenterPatty H
Patience...that is my good word...patience.
11.8.2010 | Unregistered CommenterLisa
Great interview! What a terrific woman she is.

My word for today (maybe tomorrow too) is LIGHTHEARTED. I am only aspiring to be lighthearted, but it is one of my goals and I am headed toward it. Cheer me on! I'm lighthearted.
11.8.2010 | Unregistered CommenterB.
My word for today would be Gratefulness.... for Myriam and for you....for bringing this phenominal woman to the Light of the World! The interview was amazing and I adored Myriam's answers...She had me hooked on Trombone!!!!

What a Blessing this has been...
Thank You so much!
11.8.2010 | Unregistered CommenterAkasa WolfSong
Nice to meet you, Myriam. I love black girl hair, too. So my word of inspiration today is "Beauty."
11.8.2010 | Unregistered CommenterHeather
Today's word: CONTENTMENT
11.8.2010 | Unregistered CommenterRena
My word is Faith...you gotta have it. :o)
11.8.2010 | Unregistered CommenterMelissa
Today my word is BREATHE. I'm out of town helping a friend with her new baby and my husband is dealing with a sick 2 yr old and 4 yr old who got in trouble at school today. Feeling guilty about being away but knowing that the help I can offer to my friend is worth it.
11.8.2010 | Unregistered CommenterAnnGeeDee

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